If you are a parent whose child just came out, you may be struggling or wondering how to respond. We are parents too and want to help you through this crossroads and find a hopeful path for your family.
Many parents—especially Christian parents aren't sure how to respond when their child comes out as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or anything else on the LGBTQ+ spectrum. Here are some practical tips for how best to respond from Justin, who has been in this ministry for over 20 years.
A great book written by Christian parents who alternate telling the story of the struggles they faced as they tried to respond lovingly after learning their son was gay. Honest, thought-provoking, and filled with practical insights and Christian wisdom, this book even includes its own study guide.
This film from 2009 features powerful stories of young gay Christians.
Karen Thompson is a Christian Minister who encourages people to show in words and actions that LGBTQ children are loved by their families and by God. She explains that is important not to confuse Christians with Christ, because God’s message is that he loves us exactly as we are, no exceptions; even though some churches preach that being LGBTQ is a sin, there are others who will celebrate you for who you are, with love, tolerance, and faith. Hers is a message of love and a cautionary view of the risks of dogmatism without compassion.
As a Strong Family Alliance´s board member Dr. Shailagh Clarke states that parents are a powerful force and an important factor on a children's life. She talks about the importance of helping parents of LGBTQ children to understand how their actions can affect their children, and how to build a strong relationship through acceptance, empathy, love, being neutral and supportive.
The above resources are just a few of the resources available from the Strong Family Alliance website.
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